Jun 20, 2023
Embracing Neurodiversity: My Journey Continues to Unfold
I may have dropped a bombshell in episode 191. I apologize and I provide more information in this episode. My understanding about neurodivergence has really expanded, and I’m recognizing myself in some new and unexpected ways. I share some insight, education, and how this expands my work with neurodivergent people with new understanding. I also talk about how I see this impacting the podcast and my work with clients.
Patricia is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and Coach. She knows what it’s like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other HSPs know that they aren’t alone, and that being an HSP has amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for HSPs that focus on understanding what it means to be an HSP, self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors us
UPDATED AUTISM RESOURCES
Could you be Autistic (and not know) Video Yo Samdy Sam
10 Autism Signs you need to know Paige Layle (content starts at 1:45) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RfKH7-GM3aM
Autistic MASKING: how do we do it and should we stop? Yo Samdy Sam
Online Tests and Quizzes
Pre-diagnostic/Self-assessment quiz for autism
Pre-diagnostic/Self-assessment quiz for autism
Adult autism assessment for people socialized as women
Steve Asbell’s Autistic Masking Quiz
A Neurodiversity Paradigm Breakdown of the DSM-5 Criteria for Autism
Should you seek an autism diagnosis or not?
Trauma Geek Facebook Post from Nov. 4, 2020 (with a couple added links):
Let’s talk about adult diagnosis of Autism and ADHD.
What’s the point?
1. Educational accommodations
2. Disability benefits
3. Specialized support
4. Finding your NeuroTribe
5. All of the above
If you’re looking for 1 or 2, medical diagnosis is necessary.
If you’re looking for 3 or 4, self-diagnosis is completely valid.
Many neurodivergent people do both - There is a self-discovery process first, and then they seek medical diagnosis.
Medical diagnosis is a privilege. It is not accessible to all neurodivergent people. It is expensive and emotionally taxing under the best of circumstances.
If you pursue medical diagnosis, there is a high chance that your doctor will not be informed about the neurodiversity paradigm or masking. They may not see you as autistic or ADHD because their training involved a very narrow stereotype of these neurotypes. You may need to ask if your doctor is willing to look at the newest research and learn along with you, or you may want to refer them to a neurodiversity advocate who can explain the research to them.
(I’m writing from the United States, so this info may not apply to all countries, but I have read that Australia and the UK are very similar with professionals tending to have a biased concept of autism based on outdated research studies of men and boys. This trend is gradually changing for the better, but we have a long way to go to reach full autism and ADHD acceptance in the medical field.)
If you don’t need government benefits or educational support, self-identification is enough. Like gender identity, neurotype is a social construct. Self-diagnosis matters because it allows us to reframe our story about ourselves, seek supports that actually work for us, understand our own health and neurology, and find belonging in a group that thinks and feels and expresses themselves like we do.
The importance of finding belonging after a lifetime of feeling othered cannot be overstated.
How to talk about Autism respectfully - https://coda.io/@mykola-bilokonsky/public-neurodiversity-support-center/how-to-talk-about-autism-respectfully-84
@audhdfeelings: This is the best assessment ever https://1drv.ms/x/s!AqQsNLv44oHwc-z-kYxYTbJ9BxQ?e=yENNbJ
Sally Cat checklist http://www.sallycatpda.co.uk/?m=1
Casey Ehrlich PDA at Peace Parents https://www.atpeaceparents.com/
Autism is a spectrum doesn’t mean what you think https://neuroclastic.com/its-a-spectrum-doesnt-mean-what-you-think/?fbclid=IwAR3-mYBE9aa6OrZLW6t7cN4kFymr_gXtHuDhimKOSHq7AAa9-NqvXsGXb38&mibextid=Zxz2cZ
ND communication styles https://neuroclastic.com/weavers-and-concluders-two-communication-styles-no-one-knows-exist/?amp&fbclid=IwAR0dDqS_0TxJxzDyQOkuMyBBqTf5mqb_bs2R0osDgI_sEC5-3FdGONI91K4&mibextid=Zxz2cZ
«Unmasking Autism» (Devon Price)
«Nerdy, Shy, and Socially Inappropriate» (Cynthia Kim)
«Drama Queen: One Autistic Woman and a Life of Unhelpful Labels» (Sara Gibbs)
«Odd girl out: An Autistic Woman in a Neurotypical World» (Laura James)
«I Overcame My Autism and All I Got Was This Lousy Anxiety Disorder — A Memoir» (Sarah Kurchak)
«Invisible Differences: A Story of Aspergers, Adulting, and Living a Life in Full Color» (Julie Dachez)
- the Neurodivergent Woman
- the Autistic Culture
- the neurodiverging podcast
- Neurodivergent moments
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